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Dating Diaries
The Draft
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Alex, 27
Architect · friends: 3.5 / 5
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Max, 27
Architect · friends: 4.1 / 5
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Jeremiah, 27
Architect · friends: 2.8 / 5
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Your #1
Friends said 3.5 / 5
Your roster

Everyone you're seeing, in one place

The ones you're dating, the ones you're deciding on, and every date you've been on with them.

Dating Diaries
Your roster
KISS
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Max, 27
Architect · met on Hinge
6 dates · last one Friday
MARRY
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Leo, 29
Designer · met through friends
11 dates · last one Saturday
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Sam, 31
Musician · met IRL
2 dates · last one last week
Dating Diaries
What your friends think
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Jeremiah, 27
Architect · 2 dates
What you wrote
"Really sweet on the first date, but he only texts back at midnight. Unsure if he's busy or avoidant."
How good a fit is he?
12345
not a fitgreat fit
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Your friends

They already know the whole story

Your friends follow your roster as it happens — the good date, the red flag, the week he went quiet. No starting from the beginning every time you need advice. No finding out three months later.

And you get to follow theirs, including the ones who moved away.

  • They're already caught up — no recap, no screenshots, no six-message voice note
  • Only you see the answers — your friends can't see each other's, so nobody softens it or just agrees with the group
  • You pick what each friend sees — your whole roster, one person, or a single entry. Nobody gets the full picture unless you want them to.
The diary

See the patterns you'd otherwise miss

Written down, things get obvious — what you keep putting up with, and who keeps showing up.

Dating Diaries
What the diary noticed
What the diary noticed
Books the next date before the current one ends
Remembers what you tell him
Six dates, hasn't introduced you to anyone
Goes quiet after 9pm on weekdays
How into you he is
72/100
not into itall in
Also inside

Your whole dating life, written down

Every date, logged

Add a date and it writes itself into his diary afterwards.

The moments that matter

First kiss, met his family, made it exclusive.

Your icks, caught early

Tell it your instant nos. It flags them the second they show up.

Side by side

Ask who's worth your time and get a straight answer.

early users say

Finally, an app that gets it

★★★★★
"It's like a social platform for my love life. Everyone I'm talking to is in one place — dates on the calendar, notes in my diary, and my friends weighing in on all of it."
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Sophia, 26
★★★★★
"My friends and I all use it and it's so fun seeing who everyone's talking to. We rate each other's Drafts and argue about it in the group chat."
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Maya, 29
★★★★★
"Writing it down changed how I saw myself, honestly. I could see I kept making excuses for the same thing over and over."
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Amara, 24
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